Source: Sandra Stith, 785-532-4377, sstith@k-state.edu
News release prepared by: Jane Marshall, 785-532-1519, jpm2@k-state.edu
Thursday, September 13, 2007
SIDEBAR: K-STATE EXPERT OFFERS ADVICE ON DEALING WITH DATING VIOLENCE
MANHATTAN -- Get help or get out.
That's Sandra Stith's advice to those who face dating violence. Stith is director of Kansas State University's marriage and family therapy program and a nationally recognized expert in domestic violence.
"Admittedly, it is hard to get out of a relationship alone … and students shouldn't have to," Stith said. "Studies indicate that many victims want help but don't know where to turn."
For students who believe a friend may be abused, Stith urges them to speak up. Silence adds to the problem, she said.
Ask about the black eye, the bruised arms, the constant tears, Stith said. Say "I'm worried about you," Or tell a teacher, parent or counselor.
"You want peace of mind. You want to know that you did all you could," Stith said.
Campuses and communities offer a myriad of counseling and support resources.
For K-State students, help is available from the Lafene Health Center Women's Clinic at 785-532-6544; K-State Women's Center, 206 Holton Hall, 785-532-6444; K-State counseling services, 232 English/Counseling Building, 785-532-6927; Manhattan Crisis Center, 785-539-2785; Mercy Regional Health Center, 785-323-6880; and the K-State Family Center, Campus Creek Complex, 785-532-6984.